Do you feel like your balls are going to explode? This is the dilemma of shy guys. We try to be nice but just can't get to that point of going on a date. Let alone releasing the pressure of blue balls.
You know my first couple of years in college were just like my years in high school. I wasn't trying to be antisocial but I almost never got the nerve to ask a girl out for a date. Yeah, I would get a date. I would wait until everyone else was going to the prom. Then I would find out who wasn't asked, then ask her. Even though I wasn't an outcast, I was just too damn shy. But it was difficult to be a nice guy and friend rather than a boyfriend. I was really backward and nervous. Not to promising. When I went to the prom, I danced but was really uncomfortable.
After the dance I went home and released the pressure myself. Not at all like the dreams I had before the date. I would dream how I would sweep her off her feet. Go to a hotel and have a "private dance". But those dreams weren't real. Later in college I found out that she was willing, if only I had asked. What a geek!
A year ago, I found this book Guy Gets Girl and it changed my life. I finally found out what she wanted. College wasn't the same. I finally got out. Had fun. And I was no longer uncomfortable about myself or the women I met. Heck, they even started to call me. Then three months ago, I met Kathy. Oh, it has been a great three months. I don't think it would have happened otherwise because I really didn't have a clue.
If you want to get a clue and a girl, check out Guy Gets Girl. I hope you have success.
