Dating For Shy Guys

Shy Guy Dating Tips

2008-01-31T19:19:00.003-05:00

Lonely day, lonely nights, I got to find a woman. Okay, I know that's not the real words to the song but it sure feels like it sometimes, doesn't it?

Tip#1: Ask your friends about you.

I know this kind of makes us feel stupid. But just ask, what do you think a woman expects from me? You may find out that she just wants to get to know you. The real you. Or maybe you just got the get cleaned up.

Tip#2: Be yourself but be firm.

Don't be wishy washy. Be nice but for heavens sake don't always give in. A firm stance is expected from a man. Make suggestions, let her have choices, but you can limit the choices. That gives you the appearance of being firm. If she says she doesn't know which one then pick one.

Tip#3: Be neat!

Yeah, I know. We shouldn't be judged from the outside. Well, guess what, we ARE!!! Whether right or wrong people will judge us by our outside appearance. It is true, first appearances count.

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Why Shy Guy?

2007-11-11T08:31:00.002-05:00

Why are you shy? Ask yourself this question.
What are you afraid of? Think about it.
Everyone is afraid of something.

Is it the way you look?
Is is the way you talk?
What is it?

You are you. Good or bad that is the way it is.
Now do YOU want to be alone or do you want some fun?

I have to tell you this but if you go talk with someone and they reject you, you will still live. So stand up as straight as you can and with false confidence walk up to anyone and say Hi. Just know that the worst they can do is tell you NO.

If they tell you no or reject you - move on. You are not a tree, don't stand in place go to the next person. Remember what they always say Practice makes perfect.
So go work on being perfect.

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Dating Guy Shy Tip

2007-11-10T18:55:00.001-05:00

Dating Guy Shy Tip

Shy tip for a dating guy, okay you're shy. Guess what a lot of people are.
But there are a couple of things you can do.

1. Don't worry about the other guy. You are not him. You are you.
Don't wish you were him, you are not. Don't waste your time thinking or trying to be like him.

2. Relax and smile. Yep, that's it. Just relax and smile. Make it a permanent part of who you are.
People will gravitate more quickly to someone with a smile rather than someone who looks like they will faint if someone comes near.

3. For heaven's sake, be clean and neat. You don't have to be the best dresser, but you have to look good. Before you leave check yourself in the mirror.

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Dating Shy Guy Tip #1

2007-11-10T17:19:00.001-05:00

Dating Shy Guy Tip #1

You are a shy, nice or even good guy. You are NOT doomed to finish last.
But you must know there is a difference in being nice, shy or good and dating correctly.
And that is you can not be a wimp!

Your date wants a challenge but not a bully. You must not run out an buy her things.
You don't take her out to expensive dinners in the beginning. You set strict rules. Otherwise, it's like paying her for off for feeling sorry for you. Well, she doesn't. She wants to be out with you. So be nice but not weak. You do not have to be grateful. And especially, don't act like you are.

So tip #1 for the shy guy: be yourself with strict rules. Be kind but don't act grateful. Be a challenge.

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